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There really are two things you are mentioning here, so I'll treat them separately (even if most of the times, both are relevant). 1) I think the idea sucks: Stay honest, but polite. I try to explain why I believe the idea is not, in its current form, good enough. I stay as scientific as possible in this explanation, by giving concrete examples, scenarios and cases where it wouldn't work. At the same time, I provide some advice in terms of what I think there are opportunities for the idea (if any) and almost always finish with a motivational message about not giving up. After all, it's not because I think it's not a good idea that it is not... and who am I to crush people's dreams. 2) You're not interested in the idea: A lot of us have busy lives, and that's a fact. There are many things you would like to do, try, and experience but at some point there are choices to be made and priorities to establish. When I'm not interested I explain that there's a lot on my plate already, and that I wouldn't be able to keep up with it. So instead of saying yes, out of excitement, and disappointing later, I'd rather politely decline upfront for everyone's best interest :) -- Bottom line, there is no need to lie or invent excuses, but 'explain' it in a way people understand, and they shouldn't get hurt. |