Not quite, entanglement is indeed spooky action at a distance given bell’s inequality theorem showed that it can’t be local hidden variables (prior knowledge)
Also not quite, since that depends on your interpretation of quantum mechanics. For example, in the Many Worlds Interpretation there is not spooky action at a distance, since there is no wavefunction collapse in the first place, i.e. measurement does not cause a projection operator to occur, but instead occurs through unitary decoherence. Therefore, no spooky action at a distance (although it is still non local)
Yeah, each valid interpretation is consistent with the observations, but each is weird in its own way (usually some form of non-local, sometimes more out there like superdeterminism).