[danaris]

Conversely, though, if you've already lost the trust of your employees—by overworking over the course of years, underpaying them, and generally treating them poorly—those small gestures suddenly seem very paltry and, in some cases, insulting. Because it makes it seem as if you think you can make up for all that abuse just with a few free lunches and free donuts in the conference room.

[Xeoncross]

I was speaking about you personally. I've never known a company to take out a single person for a $20 lunch.

Fill the void for your friend when their own company is letting them down.