[kgwxd]

Thanks. I never heard that term, just reading the first search result it definitely seems to be right in the domain of what I'm figuring out.

[jrgoff]

You're welcome. Just so you are aware, if you go down that route, there are some attachment style resources/communities (even pretty mainstream ones) that demonize avoidant attachment styles a bit, so if you run into that, know that those might not be the best places for someone with avoidant style to look for help but that there are places that are more supportive of us.