[petersonh]

Not sure where you are - but in my situation having my 2nd son right in March 2020, I had (and still have) a job with the government. I had 6 months paid pat leave (full salary) and relatively low stress.

Wouldn't even consider taking a more stressful job until the kids are older, as the trade-off isn't worth it.

All that being said, you need to factor in your partners job, and cost of living wherever you are.

For me, being a dad has been awesome, even through COVID, I hope you can find a way to enjoy it.