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You don't need to be a fast talker to get a job as a programmer. If you haven't left your job in 10 years you might be able to double your salary with a move.

Send me your resume, my email is in my profile. Happy to take a look.

Being a dad is a lot of work, but caring is the most important part. For the first few months finding sleep is very difficult, and supporting your spouse will be important, but other than that it's pretty simple.

It's good that you are freaking out now, it means you need to freak out less later.