Thanks, yeah the big box apparently isn't a big hit as something more subtle like libnotify, I hope more designers come in and share their ideas, I like the jackedup that was submitted. The idea of humane message (which wasn't mine) was somewhat like the bigbox, which I liked, I think the unobtrusive part comes in that the user doesn't have to click to remove it, and getting out of the way when you want to see what's behind it. Thanks for the comment.