I used to spend a lot of time in flight simulators and am very interested in VR. What headsets have you used? Just a Quest 2? Or one of the high end ones?
The samsung odyssey"+" is the best flight sim headset imo; they use some sort of screen to reduce the pixel/screen door effect and it works wonders in making stuff look realistic.
What I like about the Q2 is that it's cheap and offers wifi capability so I can sit on the couch far from the PC. More relaxing that way.
Sometimes I use real controllers and I got a USB extender cable for that.