Essentially all residential IPs are blacklisted for email servers, at least on port 25. Many ISPs blackhole any traffic on port 25 to residential IPs. Do you have port 25 working on your residential connection?
Isn’t port 25 used for unencrypted traffic as opposed to port 465? I’m pretty sure I had a working mail server back in 2012 behind an ISP that blocked port 25.