Do you think you provided a reasonable and objective analysis of events and viewpoints? It doesn't seem so to me, an outsider who had never heard of keffals or kf
You still are paraphrasing events and viewpoints, which provides an opportunity to spin them.
In any case, even if harassment is purely subjective, isn't it in within anyone's personal purview to take personal action if they feel something is harassment?
No, I provided a selection of examples from the two HN threads on the happenings to demonstrate the subjectivity of what people consider harassment.