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by WastingMyTime89 1396 days ago
Been there. We separated. The actual issue never was the money.

It’s highly likely your issue is not the money either. I mean obviously the money is an issue but there probably is another one in how you both view your couple which is causing it.

If your partner feels and tell you are not contributing your part and feels you are profiteering for their work, there is probably some hidden resentment here. It doesn’t mean it’s true. It might be linked to her life experience independently of you. I would go talk to a couple therapist.