[cosmodisk]

We've been having one pot since we moved in together. I end up earning more but she's spending a lot of time with our daughter+ ensuring the home is ship shape. We had discussions over years and she still doesn't always feel that the money is ours and not just mine or her. I did speak about this with quite few people amongst friends/family and it looks like one pot system isn't very popular and more often based on shared contribution model, where they would split the bills on rent/food, etc. In our case, I have 100% trust in her not going bananas and buying some expensive stupid shit we don't necessarily need or can afford ( I'm more likely to do so). So it's a balanced and pragmatic approach.