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I earn two or three times as much as her.

It is not her fault that working in healthcare pays peanuts.

Also she is a loving mother for our 5 kids, does most of the work at home and she loves me to and rarely complains about doing most of the work (I work more and have significant commute).

So in my eyes we contribute equally much, it just so happens that most money comes from my work.