[paxys]

Here's an easy way to go about it –

All the money earned by both of you goes into a large pot. You both mutually decide how to spend that pot. There could be disagreements, but "You made $X while I made $2X therefore my vote matters more" should NOT be a consideration. It should be irrelevant whether one side contributed 50% or 5%.

Stuff like having separate bank accounts, fighting over who pays what bill and trying to assert dominance over each other based on income are the quickest ways to end an otherwise happy marriage.

[dqpb]

I have to riff on this:

> All the money earned by both of you goes into a large pot.

Divide that pot into an equal number of bills for each denomination (1, 5, 10, 20, 50, 100). Mix thoroughly.

Every day you each get to randomly draw two bills. That’s how much money you get to spend that day.

Enjoy.