[jrumbut]

> (If you don't think it is really both of yours, talk to a divorce lawyer.)

Trouble making the mental adjustment, or possibly trouble with something else and she's pointing at money because it is easy to count.

I think if I suddenly came into some money from work, my wife wouldn't be telling people I "won the lottery," she would tell them I "shrewdly selected the right startup and was a critical piece of its success, isn't he so smart?"

However it sounds like if he did talk to a divorce lawyer he would win the divorce lottery so maybe he's been the shrewd one all along!