Can you elaborate? Intuitively it feels you might be right, but every reason I can come up with myself I can also rationalize to the point that it shouldn't matter
This is just a phenomenon that has been studied by social scientists. Men who are earn less than their wives, or who are stay-at-home dads, are more likely to get divorced. You may say "well, they should just grow up and get right with God", and that may be true, but it is nevertheless a widely-observed phenomenon. It's the way the world is, although perhaps not the way the world should be.