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by danaris 1398 days ago
My wife and I have been all over the place with regard to relative compensation: she's made significantly more than me, I've made significantly more than her, we've both made about the same...

Honestly, the way I've dealt with it when she made more than me is.....I never tied my self-worth to my income or ability to provide in the first place. All our money is ours, and as long as we, together, have enough to support a reasonably comfortable lifestyle, we'll be fine.