[mooreds]

> I think one of the most important aspects of a healthy marriage is being financially aligned.

This! I will say I don't think that this aspect is static, just like other aspects of a healthy marriage. You have to keep working to ensure you are both aiming at the same goals.

> And she elevates me in so many other ways. Finances is just one piece of a big pie that is marriage.

Yes! Money is the most easily divisible, but there are so many other contributions required for a marriage. My SO absolutely elevates and supports me in many ways beyond $$$.

[strikelaserclaw]

same, i actually earn much more since i married her since she evens me out and keeps me grounded and happy.