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by flappyeagle 1400 days ago
I used to make 2x my spouse. Now she makes 2x me. She’s at a FANG and I’m not. The way we handle it is we spend well under our means and go 50-50 on everything through various mechanisms.

Fundamentally our money is shared but the accounting keeps incentives fully intact.

Sounds similar to the OP in practice