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by celim307 1399 days ago
“Strong opinions held weakly” apply here too. Work hard, but constantly check in with yourself and ask if your current goals still make sense and feel good.

I made a lot of ideals and goals when I was younger and didn’t know myself or the world, and it caused me to chase things that ultimately didn’t bring my happiness.

I’m much better now loving my harmless, wierd, silly bits, and working on improving the prickly bits that hurt others around me and myself, but I’m still learning what those all are and that’s ok. That’s growth.