[GauntletWizard]

I think you're interpreting the advice overly agressively. You can take it as chill advice in chill situations.

It's okay to want to be the kind of person who enjoys a show and watches it enthusiastically. It's great to be the kind of person who relaxes and takes care of themselves. It's wonderful to want to be musical without pushing yourself to do so commercially.

Take actions to be the kind of person who enjoys being you.