[businessman0001]

How can you know without trying? Seriously? Humans are a blip in the evolutionary timeline and you not reproducing is not gonna affect humans in any way. I'm a guy who is 30 as well, and I'm brown, I know I don't have a chance in the dating apps in the west, but I don't want to complain, there's other avenues to dating, if that's what you want.

You are better off not being a relationship which hurts you, more than being in one just for the sake of it.

To blame dating apps, hookup culture, divorce rate etc is extremely easy. And I understand the personal frustration and as someone who has never been in a relationship, never had sex, I don't think I'm missing out on anything, yes, I do yearn those things, but honestly, you really can't force things to happen, and life is not a movie, nothing is guaranteed.