[hallway_monitor]

Why would it be sad? Women are attracted to security and success. Men are attracted to good genetics expressed physically.

[the_only_law]

Since we're tossing random anecdotes, everyone I know in a happy relationship makes less than me.

I'm suppose if I was properly rich and flaunted it, certain women would suddenly be interested, but no person I'd marry.

[giraffe_lady]

Women may, overall, tend to have a different relationship to security and success than men tend to. Simplifying it to "they are attracted to those things" doesn't align with my experiences though.

This worldview is limiting, even insulting, to both men and women though and you should try not having it.

[jelliclesfarm]

Women are attracted to stability. You can be a stable and trustworthy poor guy and be attractive to women. Women find unstable psycho rich guys hideously unattractive.