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by lazide 1421 days ago
Good luck with young kids!
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I think young kids are much more OK with boredom than adults, at least up to a certain age. The whole idea of "boredom = bad" is, IMO, a cultural meme. In the course of time, kids are simply taught to think this way.

Before going to the kindergarten, our firstborn was fine with "doing nothing". He rarely questioned it. As soon as the first months there were passed, he started complaining about "boredom" at home -- obviously, either other kids or the teacher had brought this meme up. He is 2nd grade now, and with some success, we teach him to think that boredom is OK and a source of unexpected, inspiring ideas.

I think kids are fine as long as you don't completely forget the right buttons.

I think my kid is broken, they can just leave their phone at home when we go out.

They can also not check their messages for a few days.

Dunno if we did something right or wrong =)

If you reflected on the meaning you might have questioned your impulse to have kids
Pretty sure Buddha warned against nihilism. The void may be tempting, but is ultimately empty, after all.
What does that have to do with anything? We're talking about Pascal's claim
Because you implied in your statement that having kids is due to a lack of reflection, rather than due to reflecting.

I'm pointing out a fork in the road in mindset.

What makes you think they haven’t? I don’t buy it for one bit that people simply have kids on impulse, and you can question an impulse and come out the other end still wanting to go through with it.