| If they are interested in computers, work with them to find an in-person (not online!) class at the local community college that they want to take and help them start taking classes they want to take. If they are interested in taking easy college classes, open up the college course plan PDF and search for all the classes with the words "Introduction", "Beginning" etc in the name. They might like taking a "History through Film" class where they get to watch movies for general education credits. Make sure to pick in-person classes. Using the college name and professor name, look for easy teachers on https://www.ratemyprofessors.com If they are in high school or want to go to college or are otherwise agreeable, sign them up for a tutor a few days week for math tutoring, English tutoring, general SAT or AP tutoring, whatever general subject they like or are willing to try, to get them out of the house and interacting with somebody. Find a tutor they like. Make sure they are happy with it and feel like they are learning something after a few classes. Talk to them about what their life plans are. Do they plan on getting a job? Do they want to eventually get their own place? Do they want to possibly buy a house some day? What do they plan on doing when their parents are gone? Take it a little bit at a time. Lots of people can't handle discussing too much about these topics at once. If you can get them active and out of the house, be happy about it, don't sweat them not having it all figured out, the vast majority of people don't. Discuss these subjects bit by bit as the opportunity arises. Another item which depending on the household wildly varies, definitely make sure they don't have their parents credit card (for basically living worry free and buying all of their online subscriptions and games at their parents expense). Don't do an allowance. Pay for chores, work around the house, and finishing various tasks. |