[hluska]

First, it is very hard and there is no such thing as a set of perfect answers for every situation. So, relax and try to have fun while you learn - you might be right, you might be wrong and so is every other developer. L

Second, I think the best way to learn is to just work on a lot of systems. Sometimes your ideas will work out. Other times, you will wish you had become anything other than a software developer. Both states are equally helpful. It’s nice to write good software and have things work out. But you’ll learn a lot more from the projects you can only fix with ‘rm -rf’.

Third, try to get as wide a range of experience as possible. Be the lead designer on one project. And be extremely junior on another project. You’ll learn as much from implementing another person’s designs as you will learn from implementing you own.

And finally, have fun and be cool to everyone you work with. You will meet a lot of beautiful people and a lot of assholes. But if you love writing software, you’re part of the tribe. Make it positive and be cool to others. In twenty years, you won’t remember half of what you know now. But you will always remember developers who were kind to you when you were learning. Be one of those memorable developers…:)

Good luck. It’s a hard path but I know you can do it. You’ve proven it by starting off here.