[googlryas]

Right - that's why I think just doing "immersion therapy", where you have the opportunity to talk to a bunch of people about tech things would help. You clearly have the skills in you based on how you write, you just need to unlock them orally through some practice. You could also just go out and talk to strangers or whoever, but it would probably be most beneficial to do tech-talking, since there is a lot of unique lingo involved.