[_jdzr]

| but as I get older, I don't really externalize what I do.

How has this changed the team dynamics- do you get an overall sense of a disconnect from the rest of your team? I've never been one to share my hobbies, maybe I need to be more vocal about the things I do outside of work.

[rootsudo]

Most likely they won't care, and hold it against you / talk about it behind your back.

If you can get your peers to a place outside of work so they can be themselves, it works better, since it's more caring and in a group not in "work."