[notahacker]

I don't think it's uncharitable to assume that when someone writes that a generic type of request for synchronous communication is the "TLDR of the business world" which is "deflating" to receive after laying out a "clear set of strategic choices" in writing, their objection is to what they said they objected to (receiving an email asking for a call to discuss strategic choices after writing an email they believe to fully cover them), not the ignorant nature of specific questions not asked in that email.

But hey, maybe the brief text summary you wrote didn't encapsulate every nuance of your thoughts on the issue and any particularly bad habits specific colleagues of yours may have. I guess you don't want a call to clarify it ;-)

[abathur]

You keep leaving out a key word:

> The most-deflating response ... is the immediate TL;DR of the business world ...

So, here we are, having a text-call to clarify your comprehension of something you actually read (if uncharitably). Because I can tell you bothered to read it (and it bothered you enough to comment).

If I could tell you hadn't bothered to read it--then yes, I wouldn't want to clarify it.

[notahacker]

Even if a response is so immediate the recipient can't possibly have had time to parse more than the topic, I'd still regard it as more than a little paranoid to conclude that the most likely purpose for anyone scheduling [more] time in future to speak to you on that specific matter is to avoid the effort of reading what you've written. Unless you're in the habit of mailing people the manual instead of the bullet points they asked for.

Ultimately most people who don't want to take the time to read someone's email properly don't reply to schedule a followup action that will take even more time, they hit mark as read and move on. People who genuinely value others opinions (or want to be seen to) are going to want a followup call anyway, so they might as well pre-arrange it before they've had chance to sit down and read every paragraph and check out your links. Especially if they're also in the habit of insta-replies to avoid "about the email sent 30 minutes ago..." chasers from other people. Sure, it's not impossible their reaction to receiving an email from you is completely irrational dislike of reading well-structured and clear prose, but then they're the one soliciting more explanation rather than being deflated about followup.

[abathur]

Thanks for explaining my life to me.

I am glad you know that I don't really have people schedule meetings right after getting an email in which I (and others) have to explain the content of said email before we can do anything productive.

Now that I know everyone who schedules a meeting to have someone explain an email to them actually read and understood the email it makes total sense that they ask questions that betray a complete lack of knowledge of anything beyond the general topic.

I would expect someone who read the email to be able to form a question that builds on or slices into some concern the email addressed, but now I know that feigning ignorance is just their way of showing how much they appreciate my time and opinions.

My life is materially improved. Thanks!

[notahacker]

I assume that response wasn't intended to convince me I was entirely mistaken in considering the possibility that you (and others) would ever jump to the wrong conclusions about people's intentions, but I hope you found the experience of writing it cathartic anyway.

[abathur]

Of course it wasn't, because it's obvious you won't be convinced.

None of this was about intent. You projected that in. I can tell when someone didn't read the email. It isn't about people who are scheduling the decision session before reading the email but ultimately do it. It isn't about people who read the email but have questions. It's about people who didn't read the email.

But you won't accept that I regularly have and correctly understand the experience. You're determined to take an internet stranger's personal anecdotal experience and read it as something that must be false if it isn't globally true.