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Your wife's career is probably less portable than yours in an international move. Definitely make that part of the decision. I think your skillset and work habits would be ideal for in-house tech work at non-tech companies, where the more fundamental web technologies are directly used, and the tech, though perhaps important to keep running well, is not a major driver of the business value such that you will be put under intense pressure to deliver too fast.