[CuriousCosmic]

alternatively I suppose depending on the size of your operation, you should consider having a dummy prod using at least one of each of the servers in your environment and using that to validate host upgrades. after that you can push an unattended upgrade via a self-hosted package+upgrade server.

Let things be automatic to the maximum degree possible but give yourself a single hard human checkpoint and some minimum level of validation in a dummy environment first.