[thrown_22]

You sound like you have no friends and are replacing that lack with co-workers.

[woodruffw]

It’s a testament to the relative lack of problems in my life that my single biggest current problem is scheduling time with my friends.

I think having serious conversations with my coworkers is a very good thing for all parties involved, especially when I don’t want them to eventually become friends. Opinions and beliefs are plainer that way.

[thrown_22]

I can't see a reason why anyone would avoid scheduling time with you.