The rubber soles don't mean much, though. The electric current just passed through kilometers of insulation (air). It doesn't care about 2 cm of rubber.
It's the kind of story you're going to hear and remember.
Lots of rare things are not notable, nothing you would tell a story about.
Also, people could be counting near misses as being "hit by lightning"
Maybe birthday paradox or something similar at play? Only 64 commenters but appears more common than your belief would indicate.
I bet if you are a regular golfer you would know more, and if you spend 100% of your time in a concrete jungle you would know less.