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I'm assuming the types of older w/ downtown suburbs you're talking about are more like this, right?: https://www.google.com/maps/@43.2054168,-71.5416077,3a,75y,0... For the record I grew up between two types of places. One was a pretty, forested, newish, wealthy, totally-isolated-from-anything-that's-not-a-home-or-school development very similar to this: https://www.google.com/maps/@47.7471229,-122.073413,3a,60y,0... The other was a more remote, rural, mixed-income area a lot like this: https://www.google.com/maps/@38.4281764,-78.0252446,3a,75y,1... I found both of those great in their own ways. The former was extremely pleasant and peaceful. Kids would play around outside, neighbors would walk their dogs together, people would frequently have house parties and barbecues and such. Weirdly, it's completely isolated from any commercial development. It's a 10 minute drive to the nearest place you can buy anything. Nobody had much of a problem having a social life as far as I could tell. The latter was great too, but in a more independent kind of way. Everybody kept to themselves more at home, but they would congregate at church or at the local restaurants all the time. People would shoot guns, drive 4x4s, just do whatever the heck they wanted and nobody gave them shit for it. There was a bigger mix of poorer folks and richer folks, oftentimes along traditional racial boundaries, but they coexisted better than any community I've seen. Rich farmers would shoot an extra deer each year for the poorer families so they could eat meat for dinner even when it was expensive. There was a bit of a "downtown" but it was still like, 20 minutes drive away on a country road so not really accessible without a car obviously. School and sports was a huge center of life there: people all over town would come to the local high school football games. I'm still not exactly sure which kinds of suburbs, or aspects of suburbs, you find alien. |