| I believe the "man-o-sphere" logic in regards to woman giving misleading information is something along the lines of: Women want the genuine article with qualities of X, Y, Z. They do not want a guy who doesn't have those qualities innately. Naturally, upon receiving the information that these qualities are sought after, guys will try to best of their ability to fake them. The fact that a guy has to be told what to do in the first place is very unappealing in itself. Shortly -it is against their best interests to be open and honest about what they desire. Because 1) you will get a lot of fakes and 2) it can be dangerous as it can upset some undesirable guys Consequently the way to understand woman - if we are following along with this logic - is by observing how they act and react and not by listening and believing to what say necessarily. Or to rephrase - they want you to be a MAN and act like a MAN, and not to be told to be a man and act like a man. If you have to be told to be more like a man, you're not it obviously. On top of it, these desires contain certain "manly physical and appearance" qualities that can't really be faked either way. |