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by bradlys 1461 days ago
Inner qualities don't matter with online dating. You're not choosing someone based on inner qualities with online dating or even first dates. You're choosing your dates based off of superficial qualities then hoping maybe there will be good inner qualities that come along.

This is why if you're not getting dates now - you will not get them later unless you change something about your most superficial appearance.
1 comments
tasuki 1461 days ago
> Inner qualities don't matter with online dating.

Were we talking about online dating? Afaics it hasn't been mentioned anywhere in the chain you're replying to.

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bradlys 1461 days ago
https://www.statista.com/chart/20822/way-of-meeting-partner-...

Tell me - what does it look like here as to how people are going to get into relationships? Do you think bars and especially clubs are going to be great places to really get to know someone and let their personality shine for greater than 5 minutes?

I'm not gonna bother getting newer stats but they show the trend getting even more pushed towards online dating. You're not escaping it.

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