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by delecti 1461 days ago
Assuming there aren't any "deal-breakers" about you (mainly that you're not a jerk in some way), I agree you don't have anything to worry about. I was in a similar situation at 21, and am now very happily married at 35.

As for any potential "skill gap", I'm just as socially awkward as I was at 21, but my wife doesn't mind. I think conscientious people can usually recognize attempts at conscientiousness.

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> I think conscientious people can usually recognize attempts at conscientiousness

FWIW, most of conscientiousness is the intent anyway