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Bro, it's not the job, it's you not standing up to your oppressive wife.

The longer hours mean you spend less time with her so you're happier, the pay rise means she can spend it so she's happier and the decision making you get at the job gives you a sense of manhood which you are obviously lacking at home.

Give it time and your wife will again become unhappy with the status quo and demand more and once again you will be unhappy and blame your job.