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  > these aren't startups, they're small businesses trying to 
  > dine out on the glory of the name "startup" without takin 
  > the risk

The only difference between a "lifestyle" business and a "high growth crazy startup" is that in one, you're betting small amounts over a long period of time. If one of your bets fails, you're not broke.

In a more VC-style startup, you're betting most everything up front. Pardon the gambling metaphor, but this allows you to play higher-stakes games, but this also means that when you lose, you lose your whole roll.

They're all businesses, the founders are all entrepreneurs. We're all in this together.