[el_jay]

To do the work of fulfilling our most fundamental evolutionary urge, and perpetuate the future of humanity is a “lifestyle choice” isomorphic to “choosing to be an artist” or “collecting fancy cars”?

You may feel that having kids is an optional luxury; the evidence suggests this is not a majority perspective.

[knorker]

I'd argue that sex is an even stronger fundamental urge.

Yet there's no right to sex, and rape is illegal.