|
Agreed- you might appreciate a story that happened recently. I worked at a finance algo trading startup, right before and into the financial crisis. The first CEO/founder gets ousted, new guy is an old school "phones and traders" kind of guy, and didn't know, or even seem to care about tech at all. It was a strange choice, since we were built as a tech first company, but seeing as we were having difficulty getting traction, I think the hope was by getting the old guard type in there, we would have an easier time selling the new thing... anyway, I give this a go for a few months but eventually leave as I just could not stand his hardly contained contempt for technology, you could just see it on his face that he longed for the days of dropping F bombs on the floor, and then going out for expensive steak dinners at night. As I give my resignation, I get screamed at, he is red in the face dropping F bombs on me- "You are F---ing us!" etc... Long story short, I offered them to counter, with a 10x'ing of my equity stake, and even to extend my notice period- at my newly offered salary, but they declined all of it, though practically begged me to stay on for 3 extra months at my current salary. On the week I left, this guy tries to get me to sign all kinds of nasty non-disparagement agreements, which I had not signed previously, and with no additional consideration ($) in exchange, and I just refused, and he literally threw the stack of papers at me at one point. I guess I took all of this because I had literally been there since day 1 and just had a sense of ownership over everything- I also didn't think this guy would last very long. Anyway, fast forward about 10 years to a few months ago, I get a generic "cold call" type message on LinkedIn from a unicorn data tools company, from the same CEO guy- he bounced around and somehow landed a sales role there. I ignored the first one... he sent a followup, and I was incredulous- did he not remember me? Did he not care? It was something along the lines of "Hey how are you? I am working with xxxx and think you would be interested- can we set up a chat..." and I just replied back saying "I am great, haven't been screamed at or had anyone throw something at me in ten years..." and he still had the balls to right back something like "lol, great. Let me know when we can set up a call..." and I wasn't really sure how to respond, but after about a week just wrote "If your next message isn't a very specific apology for your past behavior, do not contact me. I am surprised with your past attitude you would even work at a place like xxxx." If he was a dick I was going to reach out to their head of sales and possibly CEO explaining his past and how I was disappointed that a firm with their reputation would even hire someone like that. He gave me just a half hearted enough non-specific apology to not do that- followed up immediately with an offering of buying me a beer (so he can pitch me), so I opted not to escalate any further. I have a few other stories similar to this, where Karma really bit those that were hostile and condescending towards technology and technologists, but this is the most direct. I kept in touch with a few of the old "traders" I used to work with, and used to go out for drinks with them from time to time, and they would invite a larger group of people, and I actually stopped because they were all kind of depressing- they all lost their old jobs, a few pivoted into different decent roles, but mostly they just got drunk pining for the good old days to come back. While there was a tiny bit of schadenfreude, in the end its just sad. |