[frontman1988]

Sex is a very primal need for most people. Lack of it for long time drives people crazy. It's just how evolution has primed most homo sapiens. Going to south asian countries is cheaper for sex travellers probably. You can rent a gf experience for few weeks at the same cost it will take to hire an escort for few days in the west.

[tomatowurst]

why is it that for some people this is not a problem? what makes them this way vs most people? for a very long time I pondered why I am not like others but after I realized that I wasn't alone I found much solace.

[Karrot_Kream]

I think for the same reason that you're asexual but most folks aren't. I didn't have too many issues being single for large portions of my teens and early 20s, but I knew friends who would structure their weeks around finding a sexual partner at the end and would get intensely emotional about failing. Age is probably a factor as most people become less sexually and emotionally motivated with age.

[voldacar]

endocrine disruptors, possibly