[diob]

I think you missed my point, some (possibly most) literally can't afford to do what you're suggesting early in their life. It comes from a place of financial and psychological security.

I suppose it also depends on your country, but at least here in the USA, that's hard to come by (especially for the lower / middle class).

Being able to be discerning about a job is a privilege that not everyone has. As someone who finally can, I'm happy to acknowledge that rather than pretend other folks are doing something wrong.

I don't disagree that they'd be dodging a bullet, but some folks have to take a bullet to get health insurance, pay the bills, and god knows what else given their circumstances :)