| Depends on your definition of civilized. Having been born and raised in the middle east (Egypt), I can assure you that by many definitions of 'civilized' we fare really well compared to the US. True, there isn't separation of religion and state, and that leads to much 'uncivilized' behavior, and a wacky sense of law. On the other hands, we don't have nearly the same rates of murder, rape, theft that we have here in the States. And we don't put one out of every 300 people in prison. Our elderly mostly die surrounded by family and friends in their homes, and very very very few people sleep on the streets. Our health care system is much poorer, and much more primitive than the US system, but nobody gets turned away because of 'pre-existing' conditions or lack of funds. In most of the Country, if you stop someone and ask for directions, they'll invite you to their home for a meal and be serious about it. Even though they make less than a .50 cents a day. So yeah, maybe broaden your idea of what 'civilized' looks like and you won't need to isolate so much. p.s. We cook a yummy Egyptian dinner once a month for friends, ping me and come over next Monday for civilized discourse over foul and falafel |