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by Apocryphon 1511 days ago
Their comment doesn't blame anyone for their situation.
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paulcole 1511 days ago
If they see their comment as a negative thing (which I think it’s clear that they do), then lack of blame is exactly what you don’t want to see. They need to be blaming themselves, not nobody.
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Apocryphon 1510 days ago
Self-blame doesn’t help in most cases. Self-recrimination easily leads to guilt, self-loathing, and defeatism.
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