[pbw]

I don't think you are arrogant but you sound very rigid and simplistic in your view of work and life. Strive to do better and strive to help those around you do better. You don't need to have fixed standards and then freak out when people don't meet those standards.

At the same time it's okay to move on to different teams and different companies looking for a really exceptional situation where everything goes great all the time. But realize most of your career will not be under those conditions. And that's okay, you can still learn and grow, and get paid to do it, even if there are problems.