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by O_H_E 1519 days ago
I'm sorry for your loss, and I am glad that you had a fulfilling relationship with your dad.

It sounds like you are steadily strolling the road of healthy grieving, I'm sure he would be proud.

Keep your head above the water my friend.

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Thank you.

And yes -- navigating the line between the endings/beginnings bit, the loss (which it is), and tragedy (which it isn't) is difficult but this time around I am finding it easier.

One of the things I have already realised is that explaining-stuff-to-my-Dad is portable. I can do it in my head. And when I can do that without tears, I'll be able to add my Dad to any audience in the future, and hear his questions as well as theirs.