[BlargMcLarg]

>In my experience

In my experience, there is absolutely zero correlation between preference for meetings and willingness to communicate asynchronously. To me, this is simply advocating for meetings to force people to communicate and be empathic. This has its own set of problems, as evident by anecdotes in this thread and the many discussions prior.

>This is a local optimization

On the flipside, you assume that the local optimization does not lead into a global optimization, while referring back to the parent's "meetings good" as a global solution. Obviously, giving an anecdote of the other extreme of the curve is just there to show how absurd the notion of "meetings are best" is. There is success on both sides of the curve. I would really like to see empirical evidence of "meetings best", as the trend continues towards "more meetings" (or really just more bureaucracy) without any strong evidence as to why this is beneficial for the entire company.

>As the parent put it, this is a people problem

I agree. More communication != better communication. Synchronous communication != better communication. Just like some books read better with fewer words, so can less communication lead to better communication. Unlike what a lot of pro-meeting people like to believe, the anti-meeting crowd isn't arguing for "no communication" as a whole.