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by aronowb14 1539 days ago
I wrote this back when I was 18, in response to the question “what kind of life do you want to live?” but I always come back to it. Something about it still resonates with me.

“What kind of life do you want to live?”

“A life full of color. I couldnt bear to have a boring life: I want my days to be full of joy and pain and laughter and success and failure and broken hearts and love. To be honest I don’t care where I end up, I just want to look back and smile at a life I painted with all the colors I could find.”
5 comments
treis 1539 days ago
Add something about finding your partner in crime and you have every dating profile ever.
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durnygbur 1539 days ago
Surely you didn't have to pay the rent and insurances back then.
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0xcoffee 1539 days ago
My past idea of happiness assumed that happiness was a default emotion that would always be available, as long as your worked hard enough for it. As I got older, less and less things give me emotional response. Even love and heartbreak are patterns I recognize and don't give the rush they used to. For me it simply comes down to, 'help the next generation live in a better world' Take away the self, it's already experienced everything it needs to.
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parthvader 1539 days ago
This touched my heart.
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frontman1988 1539 days ago
How has that worked out for you?
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aronowb14 1539 days ago
honestly, not too bad :). I don't really use it as a "follow this as a guiding design pattern" piece of advice, but I think the philosophy is really useful when dealing with relationships with people, and taking risks in life. Over the past years, thinking "how will I aestheticize my life" has led me to some really interesting + fulfilling relationships and let me experience a lot of life. Sure, I have gotten burnt quite a few times, but in hindsight I regret nothing. I think the pain and joy and people I've met from just putting myself out there have given me a lot of perspective on life.

That being said, I'm getting to the age where I think I'm ready to settle down a bit: this philosophy I think is most useful if you're young or lost and also don't have much responsibility.

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