[ljloisnflwef]

The majority of my life has been out of my hands or control.

So it doesn't feel like "my life", rather on a ride I can't get off or interface with.

For me to find value in something, it should grant at minimal autonomy.

[mod]

The only real rules are those the universe provides.

We may not get to choose our place in the cosmos, but on our own planet?

You have autonomy here.

[xboxnolifes]

Most people have a choice to die instead of working, but most people would also not consider that a choice.

[JKCalhoun]

I wonder how much that is "in your head"?